Wondering on this wednesday what's your love language?

This is the month of love..It's on our minds, as we think of all those we wish to express love to-- this Valentines..

As I was thinking about what to give my hubby, I wondered? Am I giving him what he wants or what I want?

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I went to the love Dr. for advice.

We are all trying to keep the love tank full. We all need to feel loved. It's a human emotional need. For love we will climb mountains and cross seas, quit our jobs, and lose our girlie bodies and have children.

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At my heart's deepest desire it was to be intimate and loved by another. Marriage is designed to meet that need for intimacy and love.

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Because of our love for one another we find appropriate ways to express our love.

But how does that work when we are all so different?

We must find out the love language of our mate, or Mother, or Son and Friend. We can then give them what they truly want from us, and hopefully they will do the same for us.

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So..I'm reminded once again what the 5 love languages are:

1. Words of Affirmation


2. Quality Time


3. Receiving Gifts


4. Acts of service


5. Physical Touch

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I am definitely, words of affirmation and quality time...Write me a poem or love song..Notice what I do and compliment me on it.... And spend time with me...no distractions.

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My husband likes Physical touch and acts of service....If I give him a massage he's in heaven. If I work hard around the house and in the yard, oh yeh! he loves me...

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I suppose the "rub comes" when someone we care about has a different love language than ours... But, when we try to give them what they need, and when it doesn't come naturally to us it is a greater expression of love..

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So.. this Valentines I needed a little reminding to realize those around me "LOVE" me even tho they love in a different way than me. And that I will try to express my love in their language..and if this is all too confusing might I just remember the best lesson I ever learned on love found in the scriptures:

Over 2,000 years ago it was written in Luke about the life and teachings of the savior..In what many have called Jesus' greatest sermon, we were given love's greatest challenge when we were reminded to: love our enemies, do good to those who hate us, or annoy us, bless those who curse us or talk badly of us, pray for those who mistreat us or ignore us...Do unto others as we would have them do to us..

and I added this one: Love them with all your heart even tho they love you differently, and still haven't figured out what you need..

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This post was for me, (not my hubby) in case you were wondering.

however if he read this or anyone else near and dear to me and liked what they read, that would be good right?

Have a good Wednesday..Just wondering what is your love language?.....